Establish Relationships With Other Members: The Confidant System™


Crucible4Points.com is uniquely designed to facilitate on-line and off-line relationships among community members. It allows more in-depth relationships than found on Facebook, Twitter and dating web sites

You can be someone’s Fan, Friend, and Confidant (singles) or OffLine Partner (couples)

  • Become a Fan: just sign up on the members Personal Page. You don’t need an invitation.
  • Become a Friend or Confidant: Accept another member’s invitation, or invite someone (who then  accepts your invitation.)

Friends can see information on your Personal Page you reserve only for Friends. This information is not available to the rest of the community. 

Confidant can share and compare responses from the Self-Discovery Brain (in addition to seeing information reserved for Friends). Becoming Confidants allow you to get to know someone much better. When you invite or accept a Confident (or Offline Partner), you select which information about yourself you share.

  • Singles: grant Confidant status to another Member you might want to date. Compare information for compatibility. 
  • Couples (partnered): grant your mate Offline Partner status (a special Confidant). Compare responses to assess various aspects of your relationship. An Offline Partner is someone with whom you already have a "real world" relationship. 

Access the invitational system through your Personal Page, or the Personal Page of another member.  Share information and compare results with a Confidant or Offline Partner from the right hand side (middle) of your Personal Page.

Only you can see your  relationships on your Personal Page (unless you set your privacy settings to display them). Information sharing with a Confidant or Offline Partner occurs in a private area of the web site. No one else can see what you're sharing. 

To establish relationships with non-members. Use “Email a Friend” (on your Personal Page) to invite a non-member to come to Crucible4Points.com and become a Fan, Friend, or Confidant/Offline Partners. Select the relationship you want and enter the person's email address to send an off-site message.

To establish relationships with current members.

Send an invitation: Send a member an invitation to be your Friend or Confidant from his or her Personal Page.

Meet in the Forums:  See a posting you want to follow-up? Click on the username to go to the author’s Personal Page.

Personal Ads: Post a personal ad in the “Relationship Wanted” Forum.  Take a look at who’s there. If you find someone you want to check out further, follow their ad back to their Personal Page.

Search by selected criteria:  (Coming soon.)