Resolving Sexual Problems & Rejuvenating Your Relationship
by Dr. David SchnarchPublished 2002 by HarperCollins
In this remarkable book, Dr. David Schnarch, world-renowened sex and marital therapist and author of Passionate Marriage, offers a ground-breaking approach to resolving sexual difficulties and the relationship problems they cause. This book shows you how to turn your worst sex and relationship disasters into personal growth and spiritual conneciton, and help you and your partner have the best sex of your lives.
In addition to taking an unflinchingly honest, realistic, and erotic approach to sex, this book reveals the complicated emotional interactions hidden with your most private moments. Resurrecting Sex speaks of compassion, partnership, generosity, and integrity in love relationsihps, offering hope to millions of people who are struggling with sexual difficulties. This book can help marriages on the brink of divorce, golden-anniversary marriages, newly formed couples, and singles alike.
Real Help for Troubled CouplesHow can this book help embittered couples with long-standing sexual difficulties--even couples about to split up, who've struggled with sexual problems for year? Ressurecting Sex is unlike other "sex books" because it not only teaches you about sex you never knew, it also reveals the heart of how sexual relationships. Rather than focus on gratuitous suggestions like showering together or lighting candles, Dr. Schnarch reveals how your sexual relationship is a window into you, your partner, and your relationship.
- If you think this leads to a picture of how you and your partner are messed up or incompatible, think again.
- It leads to an amazing picture of how love relationships really work
- You'll see your sexual difficulties in a whole new way
Four Sections of help
- A crash course in sex
- How sexual relationships really work
- Medical options and bionic solutions
- Stories of couples changing their sexual relationships
How sex really worksCouples with sexual problems often break up because they lack two critical things: They don't know how their sexual organs work or how their sexual relationship work. Sexual relationships have rules all their own. They're greatly shaped by natural growth processes which permeate love relationships (known as differentiation). Resurrecting Sex gives you a simple practical model of how sexual dysfunctions occur, which also tells you what to do to solve them.
How to change a sexual relationshipIt takes more to change a sexual relationship than good ideas, because of both partners' feelings, resentments and emotional dynamics get involved. Dr. Schnarch shows you the best ways to change your sexual relationship, based on his work with hundreds of clients. It's not what you'd expect. That's why couples fly in from around the world to his Intensive Therapy Program in Evergreen Colorado. In Resurrecting Sex you get the deails of his methods together with illustrative case examples.
All major sexual dysfunctionsResurrecting Sex addresses all the major sexual problems facing men and women. For women this includes problems with:
- difficulty reaching orgasms,
- low desire,
- painful intercourse
- getting erections
- maintaining erections
- reaching orgasm too quickly
- being unable to reach orgasm