Part One: Why Normal People Have Sexual Desire Problems
Chapter 1: There Is Always a Low Desire Partner and the Low Desire Partner Always Controls Sex
Chapter 2: Since Your “Self” Showed up, Sexual Desire Hasn’t Been the Same.
Chapter 3: The Low Desire Partner Usually Controls The High Desire Partner’s Adequacy
Part Two: How We Co-Evolve Through Sexual Desire Problems
Chapter 4: Sexual Desire Problems Teach You to Hold On To Yourself
Chapter 5: Intimacy Shapes Your Sexual Desire
Chapter 6: You Have To Change Desire From Martyrdom to Freedom
Chapter 7: Desire Fades When You Stop Growing
Part Three: Sexual Desire Problems: How Your Personal Life Fits In
Chapter 8: Wanting, Not Wanting to Want, and Two-Choice Dilemmas
Chapter 9: Normal Marital Sadism, The Devil’s Pact and Other Dark Stuff
Chapter 10: What Does It Take To Really Change Things: Safety, Growth, and Critical Mass
Part Four: Using Your Body, Rewiring Your Brain, and Co-Evolving in Bed
Chapter 11: A Collaborative Alliance Is More Important Than Perfect Technique
Chapter 12: Overcome Ticklishness and Create Peace
Chapter 13: Tender Loving Sex
Chapter 14: Blow Your Mind!
